Emminent ancestors include James Lancaster 1610- 1699 a member of the Valiant Sixty the earliest activists of the Society of Friends. John 1822-1880 and Joseph 1827-1880 Cash who started the silk weaving business in Coventry in 1846, later famous for their name tapes. Professor John Barlow 1815-1856 professor of Veterinary Studies at Edinburgh University and introduced the microscope there. General George Monck 1608-1670 restored Charles II to the throne. George Cadbury 1839-1922 founder of the Cadbury chocolate business and the model village of Bournville. John Camden Neild 1780-1852 who gave his entire fortune of half a million pounds to Queen Victoria the year before she bought Balmoral! John Henry Barlow 1855-1924 Quaker Yearly Meeting Clerk during the Great War, leading pacifist and first Director of the Bournville Village Trust. Jonathan D Carr 1806-1884 founder of Carr's water biscuits. Samuel Bowly 1802-1844 anti-slavery campaigner and friend of Wilberforce.

• Cover
• About the Author
• Dedication
• Title
• Copyright
• Bibliography
• Contents
• List of illustrations
• Acknowledgements
• Preface by Ben Pink Dandelion
• Foreword by Edward Milligan
• “He is our cousin, Cousin” by Antony Barlow
• ‘On the death of a Favourite Aunt’ by Anna OHerlihy
• Introduction by Antony Barlow
• Quakers and Quakerism
• 1 To begin at the beginning
• 2 The Nicholsons
• 3 Family friends and relations - The Wighams
• 4 More family friends and relations - The Carrs
• 5 Royal connections
• 6 The Cash family
• 7 Fredrick Goodall Cash – the early years
• 8 Samuel Bowly
• 9 Frederick Goodall Cash – the later years
• 10 Quaker schools
• 11 The Barlows
• 12 John Camden Neild
• 13 John Henry Barlow – 1855-1900
• 14 George Cadbury
• 15 John Henry Barlow – 1900-1924
• 16 Mabel Cash Barlow
• 17 The Barbers and Eyres
• 18 Joan and Ralph – early married life
• 19 Joan and Ralph – the war years
• 20 Joan and Ralph – life after the war
• 21 Joan Barlow – solo
• Endpiece
• Notes
• Postscript
• Family Trees
• Key to people in Dame Elizabeth’s 90th birthday photo
• The future generation